Imigani 6:32; reba 1 Abakorinto 6:18 n’Abaheburayo 13: 4) (ubusambanyi muri rusange); (Matayo 15:19; Abaroma 1:29; 1 Abakorinto 5: 1). Imibonano mpuzabitsina mbere yo gushyingirwa, cyangwa imibonano mpuzabitsina utarashaka, ntabwo ivugwa muri iryo jambo nyaryo, ariko iri mu busambanyi.

Bibiliya yigisha ko guhuza ibitsina mbere yo gushyingirwa ari ubusambanyi mu bice bibiri bitandukanye. Umwe ni 1 Abakorinto 7: 2, hagira hati: “Ariko kubera ko ubusambanyi bubaho, buri mugabo agomba kuryamana n’umugore we, kandi buri mugore n’umugabo we.”

Muri uyu murongo, gushyingirwa bitangwa nk ’"umuti" w’ubusambanyi. lmibonano mpuzabitsina y’abashakanye irejejwe ariko bigomba kwirindwa ku batarashakanye. Rero, imibonano mpuzabitsina iyo ariyo yose hanze y’ubukwe bifatwa nk’ubusambanyi.

Undi murongo werekana imibonano mpuzabitsina mbere yo gushyingirwa nk’ubusambanyi ni Abaheburayo 13: 4, “Ubukwe bugomba kubahwa na bose, kandi uburiri bw’abashyingiranywe bukomeza kuba bwera, kuko Imana izacira urubanza umusambanyi n’abasambanyi bose.”

Gushyingirwa ni icyubahiro; ubundi bwoko bwose bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina bwamaganwa nk’ubwiyandarike kandi buzana urubanza rw’Imana.

Ibyo bivuze ko imirongo yose ya Bibiliya yamagana ubusambanyi mbere y’ubukwe. Muri byo harimo Ibyakozwe 15:20; 1 Abakorinto 5: 1; 6:13, 18; 10: 8; 2 Abakorinto 12:21; Abagalatiya 5:19; Abefeso 5: 3; Abakolosayi 3: 5; 1 Abatesalonike 4: 3; Yuda 1: 7; n’Ibyahishuwe 21: 8.

Imana yateguye igitsina, kandi Bibiliya yubaha ishyingiranwa. Igice cyo kubaha ishyingiranwa n’iterambere rya Bibiliya ryo kwifata burundu mbere y’ubukwe. Iyo abantu babiri batashyingiranywe bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina, baba bahumanye impano nziza y’Imana yo guhuza ibitsina.

Mbere yo gushyingirwa, abashakanye nta bumwe bahuza, kandi ntibigeze bagirana amasezerano yera; badafite indahiro yo gushyingirwa, nta burenganzira bafite bwo gukoresha indunduro y’iyo mihigo.

Kenshi na kenshi, twibanda ku "myidagaduro" y’imibonano mpuzabitsina tutazi ko hari ikindi kintu - kubyara. Imibonano mpuzabitsina mu bashakanye irashimishije, kandi niko Imana yabiteguye.

Imana ishaka ko abagabo n’abagore bishimira imibonano mpuzabitsina mu rwego rwo gushyingirwa. Indirimbo ya Salomo 4 n’ibindi bice byinshi bya Bibiliya (nk’Imigani 5:19) bisobanura umunezero wo guhuza ibitsina.

Ariko, imigambi y’Imana yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ikubiyemo kubyara abana. Rero, kuba hari abakora imibonano mpuzabitsina mbere y’ubukwe baribeshya kabiri - bishimira ibinezeza bitagenewe, kandi bafata umwanya wo kurema ubuzima bw’abantu hanze y’imiterere y’umuryango Imana yageneye buri mwana.

Niba ubutumwa bwa Bibiliya bujyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina mbere yo gushyingirwa bwubahirijwe, hashobora kubaho indwara nkeya zandurira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, gukuramo inda no gutwita izitifuzwa byagabanuka, kandi abana bake cyane bakura badafite ababyeyi bombi mu buzima bwabo.

Kwifata bikiza ubuzima, burinda abana, biha imibonano mpuzabitsina agaciro kabyo, kandi cyane cyane, bihesha Imana icyubahiro. Imibonano mpuzabitsina hagati y’umugabo n’umugore ni uburyo bwonyine bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina Imana yemera.