Uyu muntu yaganirije Christian Today, yanga ko amakuru ye atangazwa. Yavuze ko mu gihe cy’ubwangavu yanyuze mu bihe bikomeye by’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe, ndetse ko afite imyaka 17 ari bwo yabwiye ababyeyi be ko akunda abo bahuje igitsina. Yavuze ko ababyeyi be bamwakiriye neza, bakamwumva kandi bakamushyigikira.

Afite imyaka 18, yavuze ko yabaye umuntu wa mbere wari uzwi ku mugaragaro nk’ukunda abo bahuje igitsina muri kaminuza yigagamo i Londres.

Yaje no kuba umuvugizi w’ibitekerezo by’abaryamana bahuje igitsina, asaba ko bemerwa muri sosiyete, ko amatorero ahindura uko yigisha kuri icyo kibazo, ndetse ko amategeko arengera uburenganzira bwabo.

Yavuze ko nyuma y’imyaka yari amaze muri uwo murongo, yaje guhura n’umunyeshuri mugenzi we wari usanzwe asenga. Uwo munyeshuri yamubajije niba yumva akeneye kugira urukundo rwinshi mu buzima bwe, maze amutumira mu iteraniro ry’urubyiruko.

Ni ho yatangiriye kwegera Abakristo no gusenga. Mu gihe cy’ibyumweru bitatu, yavuze ko yakoze isengesho ryo kwihana ndetse agasaba Imana kuyobora ubuzima bwe.

Nubwo yavuze ko nta kintu kidasanzwe yahise yiyumvamo, yatangiye gusenga buri munsi kandi ahabwa ubuyobozi mu byerekeye ukwizera kwe.

Umukunzi we witwaga Steve na we yaje kubona impinduka muri we, maze na we yiyemeza gukurikira Yesu. Bombi bakomeje kuba hamwe kandi bakajya bavuga ko umuntu ashobora kuba Umukristo akanakomeza kuba umunyamuryango w’abaryamana bahuje igitsina.

Ariko uko uwo muntu yakomezaga gukura mu kwizera no mu masengesho, yavuze ko yatangiye kugira ibibazo byinshi by’umutimanama ku mubano we na Steve. Amaherezo yafashe icyemezo cyo kuwuhagarika, ava mu muryango w’abaryamana bahuje ibitsina maze yegera cyane itorero.

Yavuze ko nyuma yo kuva muri uwo muryango, yatangiye gukorana n’abajyanama b’inzobere mu buzima bwo mu mutwe ndetse akomeza no gusenga.

Mu buhamya bwe, yavuze ko ubwo buvuzi bwamufashije guhangana n’ibibazo bikomeye yari yaragiye ahisha cyangwa atarasobanukirwa neza mu buzima bwe bwo hambere.

Yavuze ko yaje kuvumbura ko yari yarahuye n’ihohoterwa rikomeye mu bwana bwe, harimo n’ihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina. Yavuze kandi ko ibyo byagize uruhare mu bibazo bikomeye by’amarangamutima yari afite.

Ku bwe, amasengesho, kwihana, kubabarira ndetse no gukorana n’abajyanama b’inzobere byabaye igice cy’urugendo rwe rwo kongera kubaka ubuzima.

Nyuma y’imyaka runaka, yavuze ko ibyifuzo bye ku bijyanye n’abagabo byagabanutse, ibintu avuga ko atari yarateganyije mbere. Yaje gukundana n’umugore, aramushaka ndetse avuga ko ubu ari umubyeyi.

Uyu muntu avuga ko amasengesho n’ubuvuzi bwo mu mutwe byamufashije cyane mu buzima bwe, kandi ko ubuzima bwe bwaje kuba bwiza kurusha mbere.

Yanasobanuye ko mu myaka isaga 30 amaze akorana n’abantu bafite ibibazo bitandukanye bijyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina, ibibazo by’imiterere y’uburinganire n’ibikomere byo mu bwana, yabonye ko bamwe baba bafite amateka akomeye y’ihohoterwa cyangwa ibindi bibazo by’amarangamutima.

Yavuze ko ibyo bibazo bidakwiriye kwirengagizwa mu gihe umuntu ari gushaka ubufasha.

Ni ngombwa kandi kumenya ko ubuhamya bw’umuntu umwe budahagije mu kuvuga ko amasengesho cyangwa ubuvuzi runaka bishobora guhindura uko umuntu akunda abandi.

Ubunararibonye bw’abantu buratandukanye, kandi ubufasha bwo mu mutwe bugomba gutangwa n’inzobere mu buryo butabangamira umuntu.